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	<title>Comments on: Are You Smarter Than a Four-Year-Old?</title>
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		<title>By: Samarina Vlachi</title>
		<link>http://www.bothhandsandaflashlight.com/2009/12/09/are-you-smarter-than-a-four-year-old/comment-page-1/#comment-14780</link>
		<dc:creator>Samarina Vlachi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 23:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One word: obscene!  Love of $$$$$$$$ Therein lays true obscenity</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One word: obscene!  Love of $$$$$$$$ Therein lays true obscenity</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Broadfoot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Broadfoot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to tell you that we have abandoned the pin in favor of your genius idea of small shirt over the pajamas -- and two night in a row with no undressing!!  That is amazing for us, because even when we used the safety pin, Houdini Broadfoot managed somehow to shimmy out or unfasten the pin (which scared us that he&#039;d get hurt). Just wanted you to know that you are making a real difference in people&#039;s lives by sharing your story, and I&#039;ve taken so much from your journey that I started blogging as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to tell you that we have abandoned the pin in favor of your genius idea of small shirt over the pajamas &#8212; and two night in a row with no undressing!!  That is amazing for us, because even when we used the safety pin, Houdini Broadfoot managed somehow to shimmy out or unfasten the pin (which scared us that he&#8217;d get hurt). Just wanted you to know that you are making a real difference in people&#8217;s lives by sharing your story, and I&#8217;ve taken so much from your journey that I started blogging as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our usual belated thanks for your comments! 

A couple of people have asked how this is going, and so far putting the long sleeve pullover shirt on him over top his footed sleeper has worked every night. That&#039;s close to two months now! No more stripping down and bodily function fallout! Of course I say that and will probably jinx the whole thing. 

The key so far has been to use older shirts of his that are a little too small. He generally should be wearing a boys XS (4-5) shirt, give or take. We&#039;ve been putting the 4T on him at night with a neck that still fits him, but not by much. Either it has proven impossible for him to get out of, or he&#039;s just given up, or both. He&#039;s still taking forever to go to sleep at night, but at least it&#039;s clothed and without pee or worse everywhere. 

@Niksmom - The duct tape was sort of our nuclear option of last resort. Actually, it was the next thing on our list after this long sleeve shirt revelation. So that should tell you where we were at on the desperation scale when this idea struck us.

The J-Man won&#039;t keep socks and shoes on unless we&#039;re outside or out in public. At home, it&#039;s bare feet regardless of how cold. You would think frigid temps would keep the clothes on him, but he seems immune to cold. Remember, this is the kid who will sit on air conditioning vents for hours and feel to us like he just stepped out of the freezer unless you stop him. 

I really think it&#039;s the shirt that got us most of the way over this hump, but not long after this change worked, we also started a whole new, intensive sensory diet at home and at school, which I imagine has contributed a lot to its long-term success. Hope it lasts! The next big question is will we be over this by summer when it&#039;s really too hot for layers at night...

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our usual belated thanks for your comments! </p>
<p>A couple of people have asked how this is going, and so far putting the long sleeve pullover shirt on him over top his footed sleeper has worked every night. That&#8217;s close to two months now! No more stripping down and bodily function fallout! Of course I say that and will probably jinx the whole thing. </p>
<p>The key so far has been to use older shirts of his that are a little too small. He generally should be wearing a boys XS (4-5) shirt, give or take. We&#8217;ve been putting the 4T on him at night with a neck that still fits him, but not by much. Either it has proven impossible for him to get out of, or he&#8217;s just given up, or both. He&#8217;s still taking forever to go to sleep at night, but at least it&#8217;s clothed and without pee or worse everywhere. </p>
<p>@Niksmom &#8211; The duct tape was sort of our nuclear option of last resort. Actually, it was the next thing on our list after this long sleeve shirt revelation. So that should tell you where we were at on the desperation scale when this idea struck us.</p>
<p>The J-Man won&#8217;t keep socks and shoes on unless we&#8217;re outside or out in public. At home, it&#8217;s bare feet regardless of how cold. You would think frigid temps would keep the clothes on him, but he seems immune to cold. Remember, this is the kid who will sit on air conditioning vents for hours and feel to us like he just stepped out of the freezer unless you stop him. </p>
<p>I really think it&#8217;s the shirt that got us most of the way over this hump, but not long after this change worked, we also started a whole new, intensive sensory diet at home and at school, which I imagine has contributed a lot to its long-term success. Hope it lasts! The next big question is will we be over this by summer when it&#8217;s really too hot for layers at night&#8230;</p>
<p>Good luck to us all!</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Broadfoot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Broadfoot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To say I feel (and smell) your pain is to understate things ... my husband and I have SO been there with our 3 1/2 year old Billy.  We ultimately settled on footie PJs with a big diaper pin fastened just under the zipper mechanism, gathering enough of the neckline together so that shimmying out quickly (before we hear him on the monitor) isn&#039;t easily done.  Not foolproof -- a couple of the time he has gotten the diaper pin open (and thankfully, not hurt himself on it) but 98% of the time, we&#039;ve had no foulness.  

Love your blog by the way ... we&#039;ve found a lot of inspiration here over the last few months.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To say I feel (and smell) your pain is to understate things &#8230; my husband and I have SO been there with our 3 1/2 year old Billy.  We ultimately settled on footie PJs with a big diaper pin fastened just under the zipper mechanism, gathering enough of the neckline together so that shimmying out quickly (before we hear him on the monitor) isn&#8217;t easily done.  Not foolproof &#8212; a couple of the time he has gotten the diaper pin open (and thankfully, not hurt himself on it) but 98% of the time, we&#8217;ve had no foulness.  </p>
<p>Love your blog by the way &#8230; we&#8217;ve found a lot of inspiration here over the last few months.</p>
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		<title>By: Shanna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shanna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 18:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Things to look forward to in the future.  Logan hasn&#039;t quite figured out how to unzip or get out of footie pj&#039;s yet.  He does like to take off all of his bottoms (jeans, pj&#039;s, ect) and diaper when given the chance.  I often duct tape his diapers shut.  He just loves to be naked.  I have experienced the toxic finger painting nightmare more than once.  He wears overalls a lot because he doesn&#039;t know how to get them off yet.  He turns 4 in March so I am sure it will only get worse.  He likes to keep me on my toes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things to look forward to in the future.  Logan hasn&#8217;t quite figured out how to unzip or get out of footie pj&#8217;s yet.  He does like to take off all of his bottoms (jeans, pj&#8217;s, ect) and diaper when given the chance.  I often duct tape his diapers shut.  He just loves to be naked.  I have experienced the toxic finger painting nightmare more than once.  He wears overalls a lot because he doesn&#8217;t know how to get them off yet.  He turns 4 in March so I am sure it will only get worse.  He likes to keep me on my toes.</p>
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		<title>By: Niksmom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niksmom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 21:27:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We tried that and it worked for a while...until Nik outsmarted us.  Now? Duct tape. Yep.  We start in the back between his shoulder blades and go under his arms (put a few fingers into the sleeper so you don&#039;t make it too tight) and around the back.  Overlap the tape and make a little tab to pull it off in the a.m.  If you get sticky residue, goog gone sprayed on before washing gets it out.  We&#039;ve beendoing this for at least a year now with pretty good success.  Of course, we also have to duct tape his pull-ups but that&#039;s another story. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We tried that and it worked for a while&#8230;until Nik outsmarted us.  Now? Duct tape. Yep.  We start in the back between his shoulder blades and go under his arms (put a few fingers into the sleeper so you don&#8217;t make it too tight) and around the back.  Overlap the tape and make a little tab to pull it off in the a.m.  If you get sticky residue, goog gone sprayed on before washing gets it out.  We&#8217;ve beendoing this for at least a year now with pretty good success.  Of course, we also have to duct tape his pull-ups but that&#8217;s another story. lol</p>
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